April Showers: We Need to Stop Apologizing for the Rain
Growing up in rural New England, the phrase “April showers bring May flowers” was a meteorological fact. It usually rained a lot in April, then things bloomed in May. But as I got older, I realized people used that line to suggest that hardship eventually gives way to joy. As a Black/bi-racial transracially adopted person in a majority white community, feeling sadness and discomfort wasn't seasonal—it was a regular feeling all year long.

